Adoption of a Child

This script explains the adoption process in British Columbia, for both adopting a child within BC and adopting a child from overseas.

How does a child become available for adoption? A child may be placed for adoption by:

the government, through a Director of Adoption; or a licensed non-profit adoption agency; or a birth parent or other guardian (called a direct placement). Who oversees the adoption process? Only the provincial Ministry of Children and Family Development or provincially-licensed non-profit adoption agencies are authorized to handle adoptions in British Columbia. Even with a direct placement where the birth parents choose the adoptive parent or parents, the Ministry or a licensed adoption agency must be involved before the adoptive parents receive the child.

Are there fees involved? It’s against the law to give or receive money for placing a child for adoption. However, certain fees and expenses can be paid, namely expenses relating to the birth and the adoption incurred by people involved in the adoption process such as the birth mother, and fees charged by licensed adoption agencies and lawyers providing legal services. For example, the Adoption Regulation allows an adopting parent to pay the birth mother’s expenses for such things as medical services, the cost of reasonable accommodation, counselling services and other related expenditures.

The Ministry of Children and Family Development does not charge fees to those who adopt a child in the Ministry’s care.

Who can adopt? Anyone over 19 years of age who is a resident of British Columbia is eligible to adopt. You can be single or in an unmarried or a married relationship, and sexual orientation has no effect on your eligibility.

What factors are considered in placing a child? The most important thing is making sure that the best interests of the child are looked after. To determine what is in the child’s best interests, various factors are looked at, including:

the child’s safety; the child’s physical and emotional needs; the importance of continuity in the child’s care; the child’s positive relationship with an adoptive parent; the child’s relationship with the birth parent; the child’s cultural, racial, linguistic and religious heritage; and the child’s views, depending on the child’s age. What information is given to the birth mother and adoptive parents? Before a child is placed with his or her adoptive parents, government officials or the adoption agency must inform the birth parent about the adoption process and its alternatives. Staff also gather as much information as possible about the medical and social history of the child’s birth family, preserve this information for the child and give a copy to the adoptive parents.

Is a home study done? Yes. The home study includes an educational component, as well as an assessment of the adoptive parent or parents through visits to their home. The home visits can take up to three to four months. The adoptive parents will be asked to get a medical assessment from their family doctor and to agree to criminal record and reference checks.

What if it’s a direct placement? In a direct placement, a pre-placement assessment must still be done before the child can be received in the home (unless the adoptive parents are related to the birth parents).

What happens after the child is placed? If everything looks fine, the child is placed in the adoptive home. For the first six months, the adoption worker visits the child in the home. Then, after the child has lived with the adoptive parent or parents for at least six months, the parents can apply to the Supreme Court for an adoption order. If it’s a Ministry adoption, the worker makes the court application for the parents. If the court is satisfied that the proposed adoption is in the child’s best interests, it makes the adoption order.

Does the birth mother have to consent? The birth mother must consent to the adoption unless the child is in the permanent care of the government. But her consent is only valid if the child is at least 10 days old when she consents. The consent must be in a specific written form, and there are other documents are also required.

What if the birth mother changes her mind? She can cancel, or revoke, her consent within 30 days of the child’s birth – even if the child has already been placed for adoption. But her revocation must be in writing and received by a Director of Adoption or the administrator of the adoption agency before the end of the 30 days.

Is the biological father’s consent required? The biological father’s consent is usually required too, but there are exceptions. Usually the father must be notified of the proposed adoption, unless the court rules that it’s not in the child’s best interests to notify the father.

Is an older child’s consent required? A child who is 12 or older must agree to be adopted and has to give consent. The views of a child between 7 and 11 must be considered, and if the child is mature enough, the child must receive counselling about the effects of adoption.

What about adopting an aboriginal child? The Adoption Act has a special concern for aboriginal children. The act says that the aboriginal child’s cultural identity be considered when looking at the child’s best interests. If the child is under 12 and the birth parent or other guardian doesn’t object, the Ministry or adoption agency involved will notify the child’s aboriginal community and consult with them about planning for the adoption. Under the federal Indian Act, an aboriginal person who is adopted doesn’t lose any of the rights or privileges they have as a “status Indian” under the Indian Act and other laws.

Can the birth mother choose an open adoption? If they desire, the birth parents and adopting parents can choose to communicate with each other after the child is adopted. Before an adoption order is made, the birth parents and adopting parents can make an agreement about how much and what type of ongoing communication or contact they want between them after the adoption. If an agreement isn’t made before the adoption order, they can register with the Post-Adoption Openness Registry.

For more information on openness and making an openness agreement, refer to script 146 on “Adoption Registries”.

What about international adoptions? The process of adopting a child from another country must involve one of the licensed adoption agencies in BC. Like domestic adoptions, an international adoption requires a home study to assess the adoptive parents’ suitability to adopt. So if you plan on adopting a child from another province or country, it’s important that you inform the adoption agency you plan to work with early in the planning process.

Where can you find more information?

Call 1.877.ADOPT.07. Also see the Ministry of Children and Family Development’s website on adoption at www.mcf.gov.bc.ca/adoption.

Summary Only the government or an adoption agency licensed by the government can handle an adoption. As long as you’re over 19 and a resident of BC, you’re eligible to adopt. When deciding on placing a child, many factors are looked at to determine if the placement is in the child’s best interests. The birth mother can consent to placing her child for adoption once the baby is 10 days old, but she can still change her mind within 30 days of the birth if she does it in writing. Usually the biological father’s consent is necessary, and older children may have to give their consent too.

[updated May 2015]

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This information applies to British Columbia, Canada. Last reviewed for legal accuracy by JP Boyd and Jack Montpellier.