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==What is family violence?==
If you or someone you know is experiencing family violence, you have options. Help is available from the police, community workers, and the court system. Learn the steps you can take.
Family violence is the abuse of power to harm or control a person who was or is a family member. It’s more than just hitting a partner or child. Family violence includes:
 
*physical abuse and attempted physical abuse, such as pushing, hitting, grabbing, and forcibly confining
==Understand your legal rights==
*sexual abuse, and attempted sexual abuse
 
*psychological and emotional abuse
===Family violence is the abuse of power===
*harassment, intimidation and coercion
'''Family violence''' is the abuse of power to harm or control a family member. It includes real or attempted physical abuse. And it includes more than hitting a partner or child. Family violence also includes:
*threats, including threats to other people and pets
*sexual abuse or attempted sexual abuse
*stalking and following
*psychological or emotional abuse
*harassment, intimidation or coercion
*threats, including threats to other people or pets
*stalking or following
*restricting a person’s independence, including their financial independence
*restricting a person’s independence, including their financial independence
*damaging property
*damaging property


In the case of children, family violence includes being exposed to family violence, including indirect exposure to family violence, such as seeing violence between family members.
In the case of children, family violence includes being exposed to family violence, including seeing violence between family members.


Family violence can occur once or often. Sometimes men are the abusers, sometimes women are. Anyone can be abused.
Family violence can occur once or often. Sometimes men are the abusers, sometimes women are. Anyone can be abused.


==Abuse is wrong==
====If you’re in immediate danger===
No one deserves to be abused. It’s against the law for anyone to physically abuse, threaten or harass another person. A person who does these things to their partner (whether in a married relationship or an unmarried relationship) can be charged with assault.
It’s against the law for anyone to physically abuse, harass or stalk another person, or to threaten to hurt them physically. A person who does any of these things to you or your children can be charged with '''assault'''.
 
====Call the police====
If you’re afraid and think you, your children or others are in immediate danger from your partner, call the police right away by '''dialling 9-1-1'''.


==What can you do about family violence in your relationship?==
The police will take steps to ensure your safety and the safety of others. As well, the police can gather evidence from you and others. This will help them assess whether to recommend criminal charges or a '''peace bond''', or that you seek a '''protection order''', which is a court order to protect one person from another. These possibilities are discussed shortly.
In an emergency, call the police. In addition to ensuring you are safe, the police can assess whether criminal charges may be necessary. They can also connect you to community services, which might include helping you find emergency shelter. You and your children might be able to stay in a nearby transition house for up to several weeks. This will help give you time to find a new place to live.
 
====Tap into community services====
The police can also connect you to community services, which might include helping you find emergency shelter. You and your children might be able to stay in a nearby '''transition house''' for up to several weeks. This will help give you time to find a new place to live.


Going to a transition house, or some other place, does not change your rights to the family home. The immediate priority is your and your children’s safety.
Going to a transition house, or some other place, does not change your rights to the family home. The immediate priority is your and your children’s safety.


Whether it’s an emergency or not, you can also apply to court for a '''protection order''' under the BC ''[http://www.bclaws.ca/civix/document/id/complete/statreg/11025_01 Family Law Act]''. This is discussed below.
===If you aren’t in immediate danger, but still fear for your safety===
If it’s not an emergency and you want to stay in your relationship, you could get help from a counsellor or victim support worker. They can meet with you, or with you and your partner, to help address the issues underlying the family violence, with emotional support, or with developing a safety plan. 
 
Some people have insurance for counselling through their extended health benefit plans or employee assistance programs. But some services are free and you don’t have to pay. If going to counselling with your partner isn’t an option, you may benefit from speaking with a counsellor on your own to decide the next steps for yourself and your children.
 
====Community services are available to help====
These community and healthcare services can help with counselling and support.
*[http://www2.gov.bc.ca/gov/content/justice/criminal-justice/victims-of-crime/victimlinkbc Victim Link BC] is a 24-hour victim information and helpline. Call toll-free 1-800-563-0808 from anywhere in BC. Operators provide immediate crisis support to victims of family violence.
*[http://www.bwss.org/ Battered Women’s Support Services] offers crisis support and counselling for women who have experienced abuse in an intimate relationship. The intake and counselling line is 604-687-1867 in the Lower Mainland and toll-free 1-855-867-1868.
*[http://www.vlmfss.ca/ Vancouver & Lower Mainland Multicultural Family Support Services] offers counselling for victims of family violence and children who witness abuse. They can provide a translator for police or court interviews. Their toll-free phone number is 1-888-436-1025.
*[http://www.fsgv.ca/ Family Services of Greater Vancouver] offers counselling and other services for victims of family violence, including programs relating to abuse prevention and trauma. Call 604-731-4951.
*[http://www.fsgv.ca/ BC Society of Transition Houses] offers safe temporary shelter for up to 30 days for women and children experiencing family violence. They also offer group and individual counselling for children and youth who witness family conflicts and violence. Contact them at 604-669-6943 in Vancouver or 1-800-661-1040 elsewhere in BC.
*[http://www.rapereliefshelter.bc.ca/ Vancouver Rape Relief & Women’s Shelter] operates a transition house for women and their children and a 24-hour crisis line for women who are trying to prevent or escape family violence. Call 604-872-8212.
*Vancouver General Hospital operates a 24-hour domestic violence service that offers clinical counselling services to victims of family violence. Call 604-875-5458.
 
===If criminal charges are laid===
If you contact the police, they will investigate by taking a statement from you, your partner and any witnesses. If the police believe that criminal charges are appropriate, they’ll prepare a report for the '''prosecutor''', called Crown counsel. Crown counsel will review the report and decide whether to lay a criminal charge.
 
If Crown counsel charges your partner with a criminal offence such as assault, the police will arrest your partner.
 
====Most people charged are released on bail====
Most people charged with a criminal offence aren’t kept in police custody, but are released on '''bail''' on conditions ordered by a judge. For example, your partner may be released on conditions they not have any contact with you or come to your home, work or school.
 
If your partner doesn’t obey the conditions, you can tell the police. Your partner may be arrested and charged with breaking the bail order.
 
If such conditions are ordered, but you and your children want to have contact with your partner, you’ll need to talk to Crown counsel about changing the bail order.
 
====If your partner pressures you to drop criminal charges====
If your partner is charged, they may pressure you to get the charge dropped. This may not be possible, because it is Crown counsel who lays the charge against your partner, not you. You should report any pressure or contact from your partner to the police.
 
===If there is a criminal trial===
If your partner is charged with a criminal offence, they might decide to '''plead guilty''' to the charge. A guilty plea means they accept responsibility for the offence. If they choose not to plead guilty, a '''trial''' will be held.
 
====Your role in the trial====
You’ll tell the judge what happened. Although Crown Counsel is the government’s lawyer, they will help you prepare to testify. If you’re in Vancouver, you can also get help with the criminal court process and getting ready for trial by contacting the Vancouver Police Department Victim Services Unit at 604-717-2737. For more information on the court process, see the [http://www.provincialcourt.bc.ca/ Provincial Court website].


If it’s not an emergency and you want to stay in your relationship, you could get counselling for your partner or for both of you and your partner. Abuse is wrong; your partner does not have the right to abuse you. If they will not stop, you should think about separating. Contact information for several counselling services is provided below.
====If your partner is convicted====
If your partner is convicted of assaulting or threatening you, they would usually be ordered to pay a fine or placed on probation with conditions. The conditions might include not contacting you or attending counselling or an anger management program. The judge is unlikely to send your partner to jail unless your partner was previously convicted of assault or the incident was extremely violent.


==What if you’re not sure about calling the police?==
===Your partner may enter into a “peace bond”===
If you’re afraid but don’t feel comfortable calling the police, the following services can help:
You may think the criminal court process isn’t the best way for you and your partner to deal with violence in your relationship. Crown counsel may be willing to drop the criminal charge against your partner if your partner enters into a '''peace bond''' under ''[https://www.canlii.org/en/ca/laws/stat/rsc-1985-c-c-46/latest/rsc-1985-c-c-46.html#sec810_smooth section 810 of the Criminal Code]''.  
*Vancouver General Hospital operates a 24-hour [http://www.vch.ca/locations-and-services/find-health-services/?program_id=11809 Domestic Violence Service at Jim Pattison Pavilion – Emergency Department] (920 West 10th Avenue, Vancouver). It offers clinical counselling services provided to women and men who have been abused by an intimate partner or family member. Services are free under the Medical Services Plan. Call 604.875.5458 or contact Social Worker Department at 604.875.5218.


==What counselling or similar services are available to help?==
This involves your partner agreeing to keep the peace and obey certain conditions — for example, not contacting you for a certain time. If your partner obeys the conditions, they won’t have a criminal record. If your partner doesn’t obey the conditions, they can be sent to trial on the original criminal charge plus a new charge for breaching the peace bond. See our information on [[Applying for a Peace Bond and Filing Assault Charges (Script 217)|peace bonds (no. 217)]] for more on this process.
Victims of family violence should seek help from community support workers, social workers or healthcare professionals to make sure that they have a plan to protect their health and safety. Some people have insurance for counselling through their extended health benefit plans or employee assistance programs. But some services are free and you don’t have to pay. If going to counselling with your partner isn’t an option, you may benefit from speaking with a counsellor on your own to decide the next steps for yourself and your children.


==Some services available==
===You may seek a protection order in family court===
*'''[http://www2.gov.bc.ca/gov/content/justice/criminal-justice/victims-of-crime/victimlinkbc VictimLinkBC]''' is a 24-hour victim’s information and help line. Call toll-free 1.800.563.0808 from anywhere in BC to connect with a Stopping the Violence Counselling or Children Who Witness Abuse Counselling Program in your area.
Another option to protect you from family violence is for you to apply to family court for a '''protection order''' under the BC ''[https://www.canlii.org/en/bc/laws/stat/sbc-2011-c-25/latest/sbc-2011-c-25.html#sec183_smooth Family Law Act]''. A protection order can restrain your partner:
*The '''[http://www.bwss.org/ Battered Women’s Support Services]''' offers support groups, advocacy, counselling over the telephone and much more. The intake and counselling line is 604.687.1867 and toll-free 1.855.867.1868.
*in how they communicate with you
*The '''[http://www.vlmfss.ca/ Vancouver & Lower Mainland Multicultural Family Support Services Society]''' offers counselling for victims of domestic violence and children who witness abuse, and can provide a translator for police or court interviews. The phone number is 604.436.1025, and the agency is open from 9:00 am to 5:00 pm from Monday to Friday.
*from going to your home, school or work
*'''[http://www.fsgv.ca/ Family Services of Greater Vancouver]''' offers a wide variety of services for victims of domestic violence, including programs relating to abuse prevention and trauma. Call 604.731.4951 or check their website. Also, in partnership with Family Services, the Vancouver Police Department operates a Domestic Violence and Criminal Harassment Unit that provides follow-up, especially if your partner has assaulted you violently or often.
*from stalking you
*The '''[http://www.bcsth.ca/ BC Society of Transition Houses]''' offers safe temporary shelter for up to 30 days for women and children experiencing domestic violence. They also offer group and individual counselling for children and youth who witness family conflicts and violence. Contact the society at 604.669.6943 in Vancouver or 1.800.661.1040 elsewhere in BC.
*from possessing weapons
*'''[http://www.rapereliefshelter.bc.ca/ Vancouver Rape Relief & Women’s Shelter]''' operates a transition house for women and their children and a 24 crisis line for women who are trying to prevent or escape male violence. Call crisis line anytime at 604.872.8212.
*Check the Victim Service and '''[https://www2.gov.bc.ca/gov/content/justice/criminal-justice/bcs-criminal-justice-system/if-you-are-a-victim-of-a-crime/victim-of-crime/victim-services-directory Violence Against Women Program Directory]'''.


==What about criminal court as an option?==
A protection order can also require the police:
If you contact the police, they will investigate by taking a statement from you, your partner and any witnesses. If the police believe that criminal charges are appropriate, they’ll prepare a report for the prosecutor, called “Crown Counsel”. Crown Counsel will review the report and will decide whether to lay a criminal charge.
*to remove your partner from the home
*to escort your partner while your partner removes their personal property from the home
*to seize your partner’s weapons


==What happens if criminal charges are laid?==
A protection order can also require your partner to report to the court.
If Crown Counsel charges your partner with a criminal offence such as assault, the police will arrest them. Most people charged with a criminal offence aren’t kept in police custody, but are released on bail on conditions ordered by a judge. For example, your partner may be released on conditions that they not have any contact with you or come to your home, work, or school.


If your partner doesn’t obey the conditions, you can tell the police. They may be arrested and charged with breaking the bail order.
===Applying for a protection order===
You can apply yourself for a protection order under the ''Family Law Act'', or you can get help from a lawyer. You can apply in either the Supreme Court or the Provincial Court. You may find the paperwork easier in Provincial Court.  


If such conditions are ordered, but you and your children want to have contact with your spouse or partner, you’ll need to talk to Crown Counsel about changing the bail order.
In the Supreme Court, you will need to prepare a '''notice of claim''' and a '''notice of application''' (or just a notice of application if there is already a court proceeding between you and your partner), plus an '''affidavit''' describing what happened and what your concerns are. An affidavit is a legal document where you make statements about facts you say are true.


==Can criminal charges be dropped?==
In the Provincial Court, you will need to prepare an '''application for an order''' and a “'''notice of motion'''” (or just a notice of motion if there is already a court proceeding), and you will need to either prepare an affidavit or testify in court about your concerns.
If your partner is charged, they may pressure you to get the charge dropped. This may not be possible, because it is Crown Counsel who lays the charge against your partner, not you. You should report any pressure or contact from your partner to the police.


==Will there be a trial?==
You might be able to get help from a [https://www2.gov.bc.ca/gov/content/life-events/divorce/family-justice/who-can-help/family-justice-counsellors family justice counsellor] (government workers who help with the court process) or [https://lss.bc.ca/legal_aid/familyDutyCounsel.php legal aid duty counsel] (lawyers present at the court who provide free advice). Depending on the court’s location, a protection order can often be obtained quickly — even on the same day in some circumstances.
If your partner doesn’t plead guilty to the criminal charge, a trial will be held. You’ll tell the judge what happened. Although Crown Counsel is the government’s lawyer, Crown Counsel will help you prepare to testify. You can also get help in monitoring the criminal court process and getting ready for trial by contacting the Vancouver Police Department Victim Services Unit at 604.717.2737. For more information on the court process, see the [http://www.provincialcourt.bc.ca/ Provincial Court website].


==What if your partner is convicted?==
==Common questions==
If your partner is convicted of assaulting or threatening you, they would usually be ordered to pay a fine or will be placed on probation with conditions, such as not contacting you, or attending counselling or an anger management program. The judge probably won’t send your partner to jail, unless they were previously convicted of assault or the incident was extremely violent.


==What is a peace bond?==
===What if I am concerned about someone else’s safety?===
You may decide that the criminal court process isn’t the best way for you and your partner to deal with violence in your relationship. Crown Counsel may be willing to drop the criminal charge against your partner if they enter into a peace bond under section 810 of the ''Criminal Code''. This involves your partner agreeing to keep the peace and obey certain conditions, for example, not contacting you for a certain time. If your partner obeys the conditions, they won’t have a criminal record. If your partner doesn’t obey the conditions, they can be sent to trial on the original criminal charge plus a new charge for breaching the peace bond. Check script [[Applying for a Peace Bond and Filing Assault Charges (Script 217)|217]] for more on applying for a peace bond.
Anyone can apply for a protection order under the BC ''[https://www.canlii.org/en/bc/laws/stat/sbc-2011-c-25/latest/sbc-2011-c-25.html#sec183_smooth Family Law Act]'', if they are doing it on behalf of someone who is at risk of family violence.


==What about asking for a protection order in civil court?==
===What if a protection order conflicts with another order?===
Another option is to apply to the Provincial Court or to the Supreme Court for a '''protection order''' under the BC ''Family Law Act''. A protection order can:
The ''Family Law Act'' says that if a protection order conflicts with another order made under the ''Family Law Act'', the parts of the other order that conflict with the protection order are suspended. This might happen, for example, if there is an older order for parenting time and a newer protection order says the restrained person cannot communicate with the children. In such a case, the parts of the older order about parenting time would be suspended.
*restrain or restrict how your partner communicates with you;
*restrain your partner from going to your home, school or place of employment;
*restrain your partner from stalking you;
*restrain your partner from possessing weapons;
*require the police to remove your partner from the home;
*require the police to escort your partner while your partner removes their personal property from the home;
*require the police to seize your partner’s weapons; and,
*require your partner to report to the court.


The ''Family Law Act'' requires the police to enforce protection orders.
This rule also covers orders that are like protection orders made in another province or under the ''Criminal Code''.


==Do you need a lawyer to get a protection order?==
===What if my partner ignores a protection order?===
You can apply yourself for a protection order in either the Supreme Court or the Provincial Court, but you may find the paperwork easier in Provincial Court. In the Supreme Court, you will need to prepare a Notice of Family Claim and a Notice of Application or just a Notice of Application if there is already a court proceeding between you and your partner, plus an affidavit describing what has happened and what your concerns are. In the Provincial Court, you will need to prepare an Application to Obtain an Order and a Notice of Motion, or just a Notice of Motion if there is already a court proceeding, and you will need to either prepare an affidavit or testify in court about your concerns.
If your partner continues to harass you, they can be arrested. Your partner can be charged with a criminal offence for breaching the protection order and can be brought before the court. Your partner will be released if the judge is satisfied they are not a danger to your safety.


A family justice worker or legal aid duty counsel might be able to help you. Depending on the court’s location, a protection order can often be obtained quickly—even on the same day in some circumstances.
==Get help==


==What if you are concerned about someone else?==
===If you can’t afford a lawyer===
Anyone can apply for a protection order for someone else who is at risk of family violence.
Legal aid is available to some people who cannot afford a lawyer. The '''Legal Services Society''' website lists legal aid office locations. elsewhere in BC. When applying for legal aid, mention you fear continued violence from your partner.
:Telephone: 604-408-2172 in Greater Vancouver
:Toll-free: 1-866-577-2525
:Web: [https://legalaid.bc.ca/legal_aid/legalAidLocations.php legalaid.bc.ca]


==What if the protection order conflicts with another order?==
'''Justice Access Centers''' offer a range of services designed to help people solve family legal problems.
The ''Family Law Act'' says that if a protection order, including orders that are like protection orders made in another province or under the ''Criminal Code'', conflicts with another order made under the ''Family Law Act'', the parts of the other order that conflict with the protection order are suspended. This might happen if there is an older order for parenting time and a newer protection says that the restrained person cannot communicate with the children; the parts of the older order about parenting time would be suspended.
:Telephone: 604-660-2084 in Vancouver, 250-356-7012 in Victoria, and 1-800-578-8511 in Nanaimo
:Web: [http://www.ag.gov.bc.ca/justice-access-centre/ ag.gov.bc.ca/justice-access-centre]


==What if your partner ignores the protection order?==
At '''Access Pro Bono''' clinics throughout BC, volunteer lawyers provide free legal advice to people with limited means.
If your partner continues to harass you, they can be arrested. Your partner can be charged with a criminal offence for breaching the protection order and can be brought before the court. Your partner will be released if the judge is satisfied that they are not a danger to your safety.
:Telephone: 604-878-7400 in the Lower Mainland
:Toll-free: 1-877-762-6664
:Web: [http://www.ag.gov.bc.ca/justice-access-centre/ accessprobono.ca]


==Free legal services are sometimes available==
===More information===
Legal aid is available to some people who cannot afford a lawyer if they qualify financially. [https://legalaid.bc.ca/legal_aid/legalAidLocations.php Legal aid locations] are listed on its website. Or call the LSS Call Centre at 604.408.2172 (Greater Vancouver) or 1.866.577.2525 (call no charge, elsewhere in BC). When applying for legal aid, you should mention that you fear further and continued violence from your partner.
See our information on [[Peace Bonds and Assault Charges (Script 217)|peace bonds (no. 217)]] for more on the process to get a peace bond under section [https://www.canlii.org/en/ca/laws/stat/rsc-1985-c-c-46/latest/rsc-1985-c-c-46.html#sec810_smooth 810 of the ''Criminal Code''].


Other sources of free legal advice:
The Legal Services Society’s '''Family Law in BC website''' includes extensive information on family violence.
*[http://www.supremecourtselfhelp.bc.ca/ Supreme Court Self Help Centre] in Vancouver.
:Web: [http://www.familylaw.lss.bc.ca/legal_issues/abuseBasics.php familylaw.lss.bc.ca]  
*[http://www.accessprobono.ca/ Access Probono] at 604.878.7400 or 1.877.762.6664.
*[http://www.ag.gov.bc.ca/justice-access-centre/ Justice Access Centers] in Vancouver (604.660.2084), Nanaimo (1.800.578.8511) and Victoria (250.356.7012).


==More information==
The '''BC government'''’s [https://www2.gov.bc.ca/gov/content/justice/criminal-justice/bcs-criminal-justice-system/if-you-are-a-victim-of-a-crime/victim-of-crime/victim-services-directory Victim Services and Violence Against Women Program Directory] provides contact information for service providers across the province that assist women and children impacted by violence.
*Check script [[Applying for a Peace Bond and Filing Assault Charges (Script 217)|217]] on “Applying for a Peace Bond and Filing Assault Charges”.
:Web: [www.gov.bc.ca/victimservices gov.bc.ca/victimservices]
*See the provincial government’s [http://www2.gov.bc.ca/gov/content/justice/criminal-justice/bcs-criminal-justice-system/if-you-are-a-victim-of-a-crime Victim Services website].
*Check the Legal Services Society’s [http://www.familylaw.lss.bc.ca/ Family Law in BC website] and [http://www.familylaw.lss.bc.ca/legal_issues/abuseBasics.php Abuse and family violence].




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'''The above was last reviewed for legal accuracy by Michael Butterfield and Erin Bowman, and edited by John Blois.'''
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If you or someone you know is experiencing family violence, you have options. Help is available from the police, community workers, and the court system. Learn the steps you can take.

Understand your legal rights

Family violence is the abuse of power

Family violence is the abuse of power to harm or control a family member. It includes real or attempted physical abuse. And it includes more than hitting a partner or child. Family violence also includes:

  • sexual abuse or attempted sexual abuse
  • psychological or emotional abuse
  • harassment, intimidation or coercion
  • threats, including threats to other people or pets
  • stalking or following
  • restricting a person’s independence, including their financial independence
  • damaging property

In the case of children, family violence includes being exposed to family violence, including seeing violence between family members.

Family violence can occur once or often. Sometimes men are the abusers, sometimes women are. Anyone can be abused.

=If you’re in immediate danger

It’s against the law for anyone to physically abuse, harass or stalk another person, or to threaten to hurt them physically. A person who does any of these things to you or your children can be charged with assault.

Call the police

If you’re afraid and think you, your children or others are in immediate danger from your partner, call the police right away by dialling 9-1-1.

The police will take steps to ensure your safety and the safety of others. As well, the police can gather evidence from you and others. This will help them assess whether to recommend criminal charges or a peace bond, or that you seek a protection order, which is a court order to protect one person from another. These possibilities are discussed shortly.

Tap into community services

The police can also connect you to community services, which might include helping you find emergency shelter. You and your children might be able to stay in a nearby transition house for up to several weeks. This will help give you time to find a new place to live.

Going to a transition house, or some other place, does not change your rights to the family home. The immediate priority is your and your children’s safety.

If you aren’t in immediate danger, but still fear for your safety

If it’s not an emergency and you want to stay in your relationship, you could get help from a counsellor or victim support worker. They can meet with you, or with you and your partner, to help address the issues underlying the family violence, with emotional support, or with developing a safety plan.

Some people have insurance for counselling through their extended health benefit plans or employee assistance programs. But some services are free and you don’t have to pay. If going to counselling with your partner isn’t an option, you may benefit from speaking with a counsellor on your own to decide the next steps for yourself and your children.

Community services are available to help

These community and healthcare services can help with counselling and support.

  • Victim Link BC is a 24-hour victim information and helpline. Call toll-free 1-800-563-0808 from anywhere in BC. Operators provide immediate crisis support to victims of family violence.
  • Battered Women’s Support Services offers crisis support and counselling for women who have experienced abuse in an intimate relationship. The intake and counselling line is 604-687-1867 in the Lower Mainland and toll-free 1-855-867-1868.
  • Vancouver & Lower Mainland Multicultural Family Support Services offers counselling for victims of family violence and children who witness abuse. They can provide a translator for police or court interviews. Their toll-free phone number is 1-888-436-1025.
  • Family Services of Greater Vancouver offers counselling and other services for victims of family violence, including programs relating to abuse prevention and trauma. Call 604-731-4951.
  • BC Society of Transition Houses offers safe temporary shelter for up to 30 days for women and children experiencing family violence. They also offer group and individual counselling for children and youth who witness family conflicts and violence. Contact them at 604-669-6943 in Vancouver or 1-800-661-1040 elsewhere in BC.
  • Vancouver Rape Relief & Women’s Shelter operates a transition house for women and their children and a 24-hour crisis line for women who are trying to prevent or escape family violence. Call 604-872-8212.
  • Vancouver General Hospital operates a 24-hour domestic violence service that offers clinical counselling services to victims of family violence. Call 604-875-5458.

If criminal charges are laid

If you contact the police, they will investigate by taking a statement from you, your partner and any witnesses. If the police believe that criminal charges are appropriate, they’ll prepare a report for the prosecutor, called Crown counsel. Crown counsel will review the report and decide whether to lay a criminal charge.

If Crown counsel charges your partner with a criminal offence such as assault, the police will arrest your partner.

Most people charged are released on bail

Most people charged with a criminal offence aren’t kept in police custody, but are released on bail on conditions ordered by a judge. For example, your partner may be released on conditions they not have any contact with you or come to your home, work or school.

If your partner doesn’t obey the conditions, you can tell the police. Your partner may be arrested and charged with breaking the bail order.

If such conditions are ordered, but you and your children want to have contact with your partner, you’ll need to talk to Crown counsel about changing the bail order.

If your partner pressures you to drop criminal charges

If your partner is charged, they may pressure you to get the charge dropped. This may not be possible, because it is Crown counsel who lays the charge against your partner, not you. You should report any pressure or contact from your partner to the police.

If there is a criminal trial

If your partner is charged with a criminal offence, they might decide to plead guilty to the charge. A guilty plea means they accept responsibility for the offence. If they choose not to plead guilty, a trial will be held.

Your role in the trial

You’ll tell the judge what happened. Although Crown Counsel is the government’s lawyer, they will help you prepare to testify. If you’re in Vancouver, you can also get help with the criminal court process and getting ready for trial by contacting the Vancouver Police Department Victim Services Unit at 604-717-2737. For more information on the court process, see the Provincial Court website.

If your partner is convicted

If your partner is convicted of assaulting or threatening you, they would usually be ordered to pay a fine or placed on probation with conditions. The conditions might include not contacting you or attending counselling or an anger management program. The judge is unlikely to send your partner to jail unless your partner was previously convicted of assault or the incident was extremely violent.

Your partner may enter into a “peace bond”

You may think the criminal court process isn’t the best way for you and your partner to deal with violence in your relationship. Crown counsel may be willing to drop the criminal charge against your partner if your partner enters into a peace bond under section 810 of the Criminal Code.

This involves your partner agreeing to keep the peace and obey certain conditions — for example, not contacting you for a certain time. If your partner obeys the conditions, they won’t have a criminal record. If your partner doesn’t obey the conditions, they can be sent to trial on the original criminal charge plus a new charge for breaching the peace bond. See our information on peace bonds (no. 217) for more on this process.

You may seek a protection order in family court

Another option to protect you from family violence is for you to apply to family court for a protection order under the BC Family Law Act. A protection order can restrain your partner:

  • in how they communicate with you
  • from going to your home, school or work
  • from stalking you
  • from possessing weapons

A protection order can also require the police:

  • to remove your partner from the home
  • to escort your partner while your partner removes their personal property from the home
  • to seize your partner’s weapons

A protection order can also require your partner to report to the court.

Applying for a protection order

You can apply yourself for a protection order under the Family Law Act, or you can get help from a lawyer. You can apply in either the Supreme Court or the Provincial Court. You may find the paperwork easier in Provincial Court.

In the Supreme Court, you will need to prepare a notice of claim and a notice of application (or just a notice of application if there is already a court proceeding between you and your partner), plus an affidavit describing what happened and what your concerns are. An affidavit is a legal document where you make statements about facts you say are true.

In the Provincial Court, you will need to prepare an application for an order and a “notice of motion” (or just a notice of motion if there is already a court proceeding), and you will need to either prepare an affidavit or testify in court about your concerns.

You might be able to get help from a family justice counsellor (government workers who help with the court process) or legal aid duty counsel (lawyers present at the court who provide free advice). Depending on the court’s location, a protection order can often be obtained quickly — even on the same day in some circumstances.

Common questions

What if I am concerned about someone else’s safety?

Anyone can apply for a protection order under the BC Family Law Act, if they are doing it on behalf of someone who is at risk of family violence.

What if a protection order conflicts with another order?

The Family Law Act says that if a protection order conflicts with another order made under the Family Law Act, the parts of the other order that conflict with the protection order are suspended. This might happen, for example, if there is an older order for parenting time and a newer protection order says the restrained person cannot communicate with the children. In such a case, the parts of the older order about parenting time would be suspended.

This rule also covers orders that are like protection orders made in another province or under the Criminal Code.

What if my partner ignores a protection order?

If your partner continues to harass you, they can be arrested. Your partner can be charged with a criminal offence for breaching the protection order and can be brought before the court. Your partner will be released if the judge is satisfied they are not a danger to your safety.

Get help

If you can’t afford a lawyer

Legal aid is available to some people who cannot afford a lawyer. The Legal Services Society website lists legal aid office locations. elsewhere in BC. When applying for legal aid, mention you fear continued violence from your partner.

Telephone: 604-408-2172 in Greater Vancouver
Toll-free: 1-866-577-2525
Web: legalaid.bc.ca

Justice Access Centers offer a range of services designed to help people solve family legal problems.

Telephone: 604-660-2084 in Vancouver, 250-356-7012 in Victoria, and 1-800-578-8511 in Nanaimo
Web: ag.gov.bc.ca/justice-access-centre

At Access Pro Bono clinics throughout BC, volunteer lawyers provide free legal advice to people with limited means.

Telephone: 604-878-7400 in the Lower Mainland
Toll-free: 1-877-762-6664
Web: accessprobono.ca

More information

See our information on peace bonds (no. 217) for more on the process to get a peace bond under section 810 of the Criminal Code.

The Legal Services Society’s Family Law in BC website includes extensive information on family violence.

Web: familylaw.lss.bc.ca

The BC government’s Victim Services and Violence Against Women Program Directory provides contact information for service providers across the province that assist women and children impacted by violence.

Web: [www.gov.bc.ca/victimservices gov.bc.ca/victimservices]


[updated October 2018]

The above was last reviewed for legal accuracy by Michael Butterfield, Butterfield Law, and Erin Bowman, Bowman Law Centre.

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