Divorce Act Basics

The Divorce Act is the law that deals with marriage breakdown in Canada. It only applies to people who are married to each other or who used to be married to each other. It talks about how married spouses get divorced and when divorce orders from another country are recognized here. It also talks about the care of children after separation (custody and access), child support, and spousal support.

This section provides a top to bottom overview of the Divorce Act in an easy-to-read question and answer format. It is written primarily for justice system workers and legal advocates, but anyone can use it. All of the information provided in this section is discussed in more detail elsewhere in JP Boyd on Family Law. Use the search tool at the top of the page to find more information about specific topics.

Important changes
Look for explanations under this heading to read about recent changes to family law affecting the information provided in this section.

Introduction

The Divorce Act changed on March 1, 2021. This wikibook is being updated to reflect these and other important changes to family law in British Columbia. In the meantime, we've prepared a summary of the more important changes. Read our page on the New Divorce Act.

Who does the Divorce Act apply to?

The federal Divorce Act is the main Canadian law on marriage breakdown and divorce. It only applies to couples who are or were married to each other, regardless of where they were married. If people in other kinds of relationships want orders about the care of children, child support, or spousal support and can't make an agreement, they must apply under provincial legislation. In British Columbia, that law is the Family Law Act.

If married spouses have started a court proceeding under the Divorce Act, other people ― like grandparents, other family members, stepparents, and children's other caregivers ― can use the Divorce Act to ask for orders about the care of the spouses' children, but they must get the court's permission first.

What issues does the Divorce Act cover?

The Divorce Act talks about:

• divorce and foreign divorce orders,
• custody of children,
• access to children,
• paying child support,
• paying spousal support, and
• changing orders about custody, access, child support, and spousal support.

Important changes
Under the changes to the Divorce Act that took effect on 1 March 2021, "custody" is now known as decision-making responsibility and "access" is now known as parenting time, for people who are or used to be married to each other, or as contact for other people.

The Divorce Act now also provides a test to help judges decide what should happen when a spouse wants to move away from the other spouse after separation. Although the Divorce Act test is similar to the Family Law Act test, they are not exactly the same. It is a good idea to speak to a lawyer whenever someone wants to move away after separation.

What is corollary relief?

You may have heard the term "corollary relief" used about court proceedings under the Divorce Act. Corollary means something that is closely related to something else. The primary subject of the Divorce Act is divorce. The other orders available under the act, about the care of children, child support, and spousal support, stem from the court's ability to make a divorce order. The court's power to make these orders is "corollary" to the court's power over divorce, and these orders are sometimes called corollary relief or corollary orders.

What about annulment?

When a marriage is annulled, the marriage is canceled as if the couple had never been married at all. A marriage can be annulled if there is a problem with the legal requirements of the marriage ceremony or the legal capacity of the parties to marry.

The Divorce Act doesn't deal with the annulment of marriages, only divorce. Annulment is governed by the common law and is nowhere near as easy to get as a divorce. The section on Marriage & Married Spouses in the Family Relationships chapter talks about when and how marriages can be annulled.

When can a court proceeding under the Divorce Act start?

A court proceeding for a divorce order can only start when one of the spouses has lived in the province or territory where the proceeding is started for at least one year. As long as this requirement is met, a court proceeding can be started as soon as the spouses have separated. If both spouses have moved to new provinces, the court proceeding must wait until the one-year residence requirement is satisfied.

Which court can hear a proceeding under the Divorce Act?

If you are married and want to get divorced, you must start your court proceeding in the Supreme Court. Both the Provincial Court and the Supreme Court can hear court proceedings under the provincial Family Law Act. However, only the Supreme Court has the jurisdiction to hear proceedings under the Divorce Act.

What happens if each spouse starts a court proceeding?

If each spouse has started a court proceeding under the Divorce Act, the court in which the first court proceeding was started can continue to deal with that proceeding, and the court proceeding that was started second is considered to be dropped. This can be very important where spouses live in different provinces.

If the two court proceedings were started on the same day, however, both proceedings will be transferred to the Federal Court, and it's that court which will hear and decide the spouses' claims. The Federal Court is a trial court, like the Supreme Court of British Columbia, but is common to all of Canada.

Important changes
Under the changes to the Divorce Act the Federal Court no longer deals with divorce cases. When spouses start court proceedings on the same day in different provinces, the job of the Federal Court is now limited to deciding which court will handle both cases.

What about claims under the Family Law Act?

Both the Divorce Act and the Family Law Act talk about the care of children, child support, and spousal support. As long as a person is married, they can start a court proceeding about these issues under either law or under both laws at the same time. However, if orders about the division of property and debt, personal protection orders and financial protection orders, the parentage of a child, or the use of the family home are required, those claims must be made under the Family Law Act; see the section Family Law Act Basics for more information.

Child support

The rules about child support are almost the same between the Divorce Act and the Family Law Act, except that it can be a bit easier to get child support from a stepparent under the Family Law Act. The Child Support chapter talks about child support and when stepparents can be required to pay child support.

Spousal support

The rules about spousal support are very similar between the two laws, except that under the Family Law Act spousal support is also available to adults who aren't married to each other as long as they meet that act's definition of "spouse."

There's no limit to when claims for spousal support can be brought under the Divorce Act. Under the Family Law Act, however, spouses who are entitled to ask for spousal support must begin a court proceeding for spousal support within two years of the divorce order if the couple were married, or within two years of separation if the couple wasn't married, or they will be out of time.

Children

The two laws are the most different in terms of how they talk about children. The Divorce Act talks about spouses who have custody and access. The Family Law Act talks about guardians who have parental responsibilities and parenting time, and people who aren't guardians who have contact. I prefer how the Family Law Act deals with children. It's more focused on the rights and interests of children and less focused on the rights of parents.

Because the two systems are so different, even though a married spouse can make a claim under both laws, it's probably best to just pick one. It will be less confusing for the court and it will be less confusing for you.

Important changes
Under the changes to the Divorce Act that took effect on 1 March 2021, "custody" is now known as decision-making responsibility and "access" is now known as parenting time, for people who are or used to be married to each other, or as contact for other people.

The law about divorce

Why will the court make a divorce order?

Under section 8(1) of the Divorce Act, the court can make a divorce order only if the spouses' marriage has broken down. Under section 8(2), there are three reasons why a marriage may have broken down:

• because the spouses have lived separate and apart for at least one year,
• because one spouse has committed adultery, and the adultery hasn't been forgiven by the other spouse, or
• because one spouse has treated the other with such cruelty that the spouses cannot continue to live together, and the cruelty hasn't been forgiven by the other spouse.

Separation

To get a divorce based on separation, the spouses must have lived "separate and apart" for one year.

The period of living separate and apart can include time when the spouses were living under the same roof. However, the conjugal aspects of the relationship between the spouses — the marriage-like quality of their relationship — must have ended. In general, this means that the spouses have stopped sleeping together, eating meals together, doing chores for each other, and going out together as a couple.

Under section 8(3), spouses can live together in an attempt to reconcile and resume married life for up to 90 days during the one-year period. However, if the couple live together for a total period of more than 90 days, the clock resets and the spouses must wait for a new one-year period to end before asking for a divorce order.

Adultery

To get a divorce based on adultery, the spouse asking for the divorce has to be able to prove that their spouse had sex with someone else, without their permission. The evidence the court will require isn't circumstantial evidence, like a hotel receipt, but direct evidence, like a photograph or the other spouse's admission.

You can't ask for a divorce because of your own adultery, only because of the adultery of your spouse.

Cruelty

To get a divorce based on cruelty, the spouse asking for the divorce has to be able to prove that they were treated with such mental or physical cruelty that it was impossible to continue living together. The evidence of cruelty that the court will require must come from someone else, like a doctor or a psychologist. The spouse's own evidence won't do.

You can't ask for a divorce because of your own cruelty, only because of the cruelty of your spouse.

The effect of forgiveness

The court will not grant a divorce based on adultery or cruelty if the adultery or cruelty has been forgiven, or condoned. If the bad behaviour has been condoned, the marital relationship is considered not to have broken down, and the court won't make a divorce order.

When can the court make the divorce order?

If the claim for the divorce is based on separation, neither spouse can apply for the divorce order until one year has passed from the date of separation. The one-year period doesn't run from the date the court proceeding is started; it runs from the date of separation.

The nice thing about divorce claims based on adultery or cruelty is that the application for the divorce order can be made right away, without having to wait for one year. However, the adultery or cruelty must be proven, and most of the time it is difficult to get the other person to explicitly agree that these grounds exist. Also, if more than a year has passed by the time the court is asked to make the divorce order, the court may very well refuse to make the divorce order for any reason other than the basis that the spouses have been separated for over a year. Lawyers seldom advise that their clients make claims for divorce based on adultery and cruelty, especially because claims based on a one-year separation is much less contentious and more straight forward.

The process for getting a divorce order is described in detail in the Divorce section of the chapter Separation & Divorce.

What about child support?

The court may not make a divorce order unless it is satisfied that adequate arrangements have been made for child support. Section 11(1)(b) of the Divorce Act says that the court has the duty to:

satisfy itself that reasonable arrangements have been made for the support of any children of the marriage, having regard to the applicable guidelines, and, if such arrangements have not been made, to stay the granting of the divorce until such arrangements are made

What this means is that the court will usually refuse to make a divorce order unless child support is being paid under a court order or a separation agreement in the amount that would normally be required by the Child Support Guidelines. However, the court may be prepared to consider other terms of an order or agreement that provide a direct or indirect benefit to the children in deciding whether the amount of support being paid is reasonable. This is sometimes hard to prove.

Information about how child support is calculated is available in the Child Support chapter, particularly in the sections on the Guidelines and the Exceptions to the Guidelines.

When is a divorce order effective?

Under section 12(1), a divorce order takes effect on the 31st day after the divorce order is made. That's because the deadline to make an appeal of a Divorce Act order is the 30th day after the order is made, and the appeal deadline needs to pass, without an appeal being brought, before the spouses will be considered divorced.

What's the legal effect of a divorce order?

A divorce order ends a marriage. When a marriage is terminated by divorce, the parties stop being spouses and lose all of the obligations and benefits that come from being a spouse. A divorced person is free to marry again.

What if spouses wait to get a divorce order?

Getting a divorce is often a low priority for spouses and some spouses wait for many years before starting a court proceeding for divorce. This isn't unreasonable, and usually happens for one of three reasons:

• the cost of getting a divorce can be too high,
• other issues, like the care of children or the division of property and debt, take priority, or
• a spouse's religion discourages or prohibits divorce.

However, there can be some complications...

No divorce without a divorce order

Firstly, no matter how long spouses wait to get divorced, they will always be married to each other until one of them dies or they finally get a divorce order. There's no such thing as an automatic divorce; the passage of time won't do it. You actually have to get that order.

New relationships

Secondly, separated spouses often move on with their lives, meet new people and get into new romantic relationships without having been divorced. There's nothing wrong with this and the new relationship won't stop the married person from getting a divorce when the time is finally ripe.

However, if it takes too long and a separated spouse moves in to live with someone new, it's entirely possible that the spouse can find themselves in a new spousal relationship with their new partner without being divorced from their spouse. (Remember that under the Family Law Act people can become spouses without getting married.) If that relationship doesn't work out, the spouse may wind up being obliged to pay spousal support to more than one other spouse!

Are foreign divorce orders valid in Canada?

Under section 22 of the Divorce Act, a divorce order made outside of Canada will be recognized in Canada, and be effective to determine a person's marital status in this country, as long as at least one of the spouses lived in the country that made the divorce order for at least one year before the divorce proceeding was started in that country.

The law about children

Who is a "child of the marriage"?

The Divorce Act talks about "children of the marriage" rather than just "children." A child of the marriage is a child of one or both spouses who is under the provincial age of majority, or older but unable to withdraw from the spouses' care. In British Columbia, the age of majority is 19. In other provinces, like Alberta and Manitoba, the age of majority is 18.

Although a court can make orders about the care of children who are under the age of majority, in practice the court usually won't make orders involving children who are close to the age of majority. Children who are that old are usually old enough to make decisions for themselves about where they'd like to live, and the court will usually respect their decisions.

How are decisions about children made?

Section 16(8) of the Divorce Act says that the court should take "only the best interests of the child of the marriage as determined by reference to the condition, means, needs and other circumstances of the child" into account when making decisions about children. The act doesn't go into much further detail than this except to say, at section 16(10), that:

the court shall give effect to the principle that a child of the marriage should have as much contact with each spouse as is consistent with the best interests of the child and, for that purpose, shall take into consideration the willingness of the person for whom custody is sought to facilitate such contact.

This doesn't mean that it is always best for a child to have an equal or near-equal amount of time with each spouse. It means that the court should give the child as much time with each spouse as is consistent with the child's best interests. That might be an equal or a near-equal amount of time, or it might be every other weekend, or it might be no time at all.

Important changes
Under the changes to the Divorce Act, judges now have a long list of best-interests factors to take into consideration when making decisions about children. The factors include things like the history of the children's care, the children's views and preferences, each spouse's plan for the care of the children, and the extent to which each spouse will support the children's relationship with the other spouse. Family violence is another factor, and when family violence is present, the Divorce Act now includes a list of additional factors for judges to consider, including the nature and frequency of the violence.

Who can ask for orders about custody and access?

Under section 16(1) of the Divorce Act, a spouse or any other person can apply to court for an order that they have custody of or access to a child. However, a person who is not a spouse, including a child's grandparents, cannot make the application without first getting the court's permission.

What rights does custody give?

Custody sometimes means the house where the children live most of the time, but it can also mean having the right to get information about the children's activities, schooling, and well-being, as well as the right to participate in making decisions about those things. Under section 16(4) of the Divorce Act, the court can order that one or more persons have custody of a child.

• When only one person has custody, that person has sole custody of the child.
• When more than one person has custody, they together have joint custody of the child.

A spouse with sole custody has the child's home and is responsible for the child on a day-to-day basis.

Joint custody does not always mean that the spouses share the child's time equally or near-equally. Joint custody means that both spouses are expected to play a role in raising their children and in making decisions about their care and upbringing; whether they share the children's time equally or have very unequal amounts of time with the children is another question.

Important changes
Under the changes to the Divorce Act, "custody" is now known as decision-making responsibility.

What rights does access give?

Access usually refers to the parenting schedule of the spouse who sees the child for the least amount of time, or to the parenting schedule of someone who isn't a spouse. More importantly, under section 16(5) of the Divorce Act, a spouse who has access also has:

the right to make inquiries, and to be given information, as to the health, education and welfare of the child.

This provision doesn't apply to people who are not spouses and have access to the child under a Divorce Act order.

Important changes
Under the changes to the Divorce Act, access" is now known as parenting time, for people who are or used to be married to each other, or as contact for other people.

How are orders for custody and access enforced?

Divorce Act orders for custody and access have effect throughout Canada, and are enforced under the laws of each province. In British Columbia, Divorce Act orders can be enforced by a spouse under the rules of court and the provincial Court Order Enforcement Act.

How are orders for custody and access changed?

Under section 17(1), a spouse or another person can apply to change an order for custody or access, but someone who isn't a spouse has to first get permission from the court.

The legal test that must be met before the court changes an order for custody or access is at section 17(5):

Before the court makes a variation order in respect of a custody order, the court shall satisfy itself that there has been a change in the condition, means, needs or other circumstances of the child of the marriage occurring since the making of the custody order or the last variation order made in respect of that order, as the case may be, and, in making the variation order, the court shall take into consideration only the best interests of the child as determined by reference to that change.

In other words, someone who wants to change an order must first show that there has been a change in circumstances. Then, when the court is deciding on a new order, it must consider the best interests of the child in light of that change.

The law about child support

Who is a "child of the marriage"?

The Divorce Act talks about "children of the marriage." A child of the marriage is a child of two spouses who is under the age of 19, the age of majority in British Columbia, or 19 and older but unable to withdraw from the spouses' care. Normally, adult children who are unable to withdraw are children who are ill or disabled, or are going to school full-time, and are unable to support themselves as a result.

Who is a spouse?

In the context of child support, spouse includes a spouse who is a parent of a child and a spouse who "stands in the place of a parent" for a child. In other words, "spouse" includes people who are stepparents.

Who is required to pay child support?

Section 15.1(1) of the Divorce Act says that a court may "make an order requiring a spouse to pay for the support of any or all children of the marriage." The act doesn't say that it's parents who have to pay; it's spouses who have to pay, and "spouse" includes stepparents.

Who can ask for child support?

Under section 15.1(1), only spouses can ask for child support orders. If someone other than a spouse has custody of a child and needs child support, the person will need to apply for child support under the provincial Family Law Act.

How is the amount of child support calculated?

Child support is determined by the Guidelines which you can find in the Child Support chapter of this resource. Most of the time, child support is easy to figure out: you just look up the amount payable in the tables attached to the Guidelines based on the payor’s income and the number of children support is being paid for. Calculating child support can get more complicated when:

• a child is 19 or older,
• the payor has an income of more than $150,000 per year,
• the payor is a stepparent,
• one or more children live mostly with each spouse, called split custody,
• the spouses share the children’s time equally or almost equally, called shared custody, or
• the payment of the tables amount would cause "undue hardship" to either the recipient of child support or the payor of child support.

More information about how child support is calculated is available in the Child Support chapter, particularly in the sections on the Guidelines and the Exceptions to the Guidelines.

How is child support paid?

Most of the time, child support is paid every month, usually on the first day of the month. It is possible for child support to be paid in a single lump sum, but this is very rare. Payors can be required to pay by giving the recipient a series of post-dated cheques.

However child support gets paid, it's important for the payor to keep a record of how much was paid and when it was paid, perhaps from receipts provided by the recipient, from cancelled cheques, or from bank statements. This can help prevent arguments about whether a payment was late or missed altogether.

Are there tax consequences?

There are no tax consequences when child support is paid. The payor isn't allowed to deduct child support payments from the payor's taxable income, and the recipient isn't required to report child support payments as taxable income.

How are orders for child support changed?

Under section 17(4) of the Divorce Act, the court can change an order for child support if there has been a change in circumstances that would result in a different amount of support being paid. Typical changes are increases or decreases in the payor's income, or changes in how the children's time is divided between the spouses.

When both spouses live in British Columbia

To change a British Columbia Divorce Act child support order when both spouses live here, the applicant must file a Notice of Application in the original court proceeding. The Supreme Court Family Rules have special provisions for applications to change final orders.

When a spouse lives outside of British Columbia

To change a British Columbia Divorce Act child support order when the respondent lives in another province, the applicant first applies here, in British Columbia, for a provisional order under section 18. If the court makes a provisional order, it will send the order to the province where the respondent lives, and the court there will have a hearing to confirm the provisional order under section 19.

The court at the confirmation hearing may:

• confirm the provisional order,
• confirm the provisional order with some changes,
• refuse to confirm the provisional order, or
• send the application back to British Columbia for more information.

A provisional order has no effect until and unless it is confirmed.

Under the new Divorce Act this process will be replaced with a process that requires only one hearing, usually in the province where the respondent lives.

The law about spousal support

Who is entitled to ask for spousal support?

Only spouses can ask for spousal support. Under section 15 of the Divorce Act, spouse includes former spouses, spouses who have been divorced. There is no time limit on when a spouse or former spouse can ask for spousal support.

A spouse’s entitlement to spousal support is determined based on factors set out at section 15.2(4):

In making an order [for spousal support], the court shall take into consideration the condition, means, needs and other circumstances of each spouse, including

(a) the length of time the spouses cohabited;

(b) the functions performed by each spouse during cohabitation; and

(c) any order, agreement or arrangement relating to support of either spouse.

Remember that no one is automatically entitled to get spousal support the way a child is automatically entitled to benefit from child support. Anyone who is a spouse can ask for spousal support, but being able to ask doesn’t mean you'll get it. You must also show that you are entitled to spousal support.

How are the amount and duration of spousal support calculated?

When a spouse is entitled to receive spousal support, the amount to be paid and the length of time support should be paid for, called duration, is determined based on factors set out at section 15.2(6):

An order [for spousal support] should

(a) recognize any economic advantages or disadvantages to the spouses arising from the marriage or its breakdown;

(b) apportion between the spouses any financial consequences arising from the care of any child of the marriage over and above any obligation for the support of any child of the marriage;

(c) relieve any economic hardship of the spouses arising from the breakdown of the marriage; and

(d) in so far as practicable, promote the economic self-sufficiency of each spouse within a reasonable period of time.

The amount of spousal support to be paid and the duration that it should be paid for is often determined using the Spousal Support Advisory Guidelines. The Advisory Guidelines is not a law like the Child Support Guidelines and is not mandatory; the Divorce Act doesn't even mention the Advisory Guidelines. However, the Advisory Guidelines can be very helpful to figure out how much should be paid and how long it should be paid for.

Is a spouse’s conduct taken into account?

Under the Divorce Act, the court is not allowed to consider a spouse’s behaviour during the marriage when making an order about spousal support.

How is spousal support paid?

Most of the time, spousal support is paid every month, usually on the first day of the month. If child support is also being paid, child support and spousal support payments can be staggered if that's fair to both parties. It is also possible for spousal support to be paid in a single lump sum. Payors can be required to pay by giving the recipient a series of post-dated cheques.

Where the payor cannot pay both spousal support and child support, under section 15.3 the court must give priority to child support.

Are there tax consequences?

There are tax consequences when spousal support is paid on a regular, repeating basis.

The recipient of regular payments of spousal support must declare the support received in their income tax return and pay tax on it, just as if the support payments were employment income. The payor can deduct the spousal support paid from their taxable income, in the same way that RRSP contributions can be deducted from taxable income. This usually means that the recipient has to pay tax at the end of the year while the payor gets a tax refund.

There are no tax consequences when spousal support is paid as a single lump sum. When a lump sum is paid, the payor cannot deduct the spousal support payment from their taxable income, and the recipient does not have to add it to their own.

Remember that taxes should be taken into account when figuring out spousal support. At a minimum, recipients should be reminded to put some money aside to pay their taxes.

How are orders for spousal support changed?

Under section 17(4.1) of the Divorce Act, the court can change an order for spousal support if there has been a:

change in the condition, means, needs or other circumstances of either former spouse has occurred since the making of the spousal support order or the last variation order made in respect of that order

When the court varies an order for spousal support, it must take the change of circumstances into account and consider, under section 17(7), the same factors about amount and duration as it considered in making the original order.

When both spouses live in British Columbia

To change a British Columbia Divorce Act spousal support order when both spouses live here, the applicant must file a Notice of Application in the original court proceeding. The Supreme Court Family Rules have special provisions for applications to change final orders.

When a spouse lives outside of British Columbia

To change a British Columbia Divorce Act spousal support order when the respondent lives in another province, the applicant first applies here, in British Columbia, for a provisional order under section 18. If the court makes a provisional order, it will send the order to the province where the respondent lives, and the court there will have a hearing to confirm the provisional order under section 19.

The court at the confirmation hearing may:

• confirm the provisional order,
• confirm the provisional order with some changes,
• refuse to confirm the provisional order, or
• send the application back to British Columbia for more information.

A provisional order has no effect until and unless it is confirmed.

Under the new Divorce Act this process will be replaced with a process that requires only one hearing, usually in the province where the respondent lives.

Resources and links

Legislation

• Divorce Act
• Bill C-78, the bill that changed the Divorce Act

Links

• Department of Justice's website "Divorce and Separation"
• Department of Justice's booklet What happens next? Information for kids about separation and divorce
• Public Health Agency of Canada's report Because Life Goes On… Helping children and youth live with separation and divorce

This information applies to British Columbia, Canada. Last reviewed for legal accuracy by JP Boyd, March 6, 2021.

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