A spouse's access to a child is entirely different and separate from his or her obligation to pay child support. Child support is not a fee paid to exercise access, nor is it a fee charged to allow access. Child support is paid by one spouse to the other to help cover the <span class="noglossary">costs</span> costs associated with raising the child and to help ensure that the child has as positive and as enriching a childhood as possible. Access, on the other hand, is the <span class="noglossary">privilege </span> of a sposue spouse to visit and spend time with his or her child, so that the child can have the benefit of a strong, loving and meaningful relationship with both spouses.