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When you've found one or two parenting coordinators with a good location and a background you like, give them each a call and maybe arrange to meet each of them. You aren't obliged to hire the first person you meet; wait until you've spoken to someone you feel comfortable with and who you think your ex <span class="noglossary">will</span> listen to. Whatever you do, don't forget to ask the parenting coordinator about his or her current workload and when the parenting coordinator <span class="noglossary">will</span> be available to help.
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==Who should hire a parenting coordinator?==
Parenting coordinators aren't for everyone. The vast majority of separating parents have no need for of a parenting coordinator; parenting . Parenting coordinators are for those few couples who found themselves fighting before litigation started, fighting as the litigation wound to trial, fighting during the trial , and fighting long after the trial. For these parents, no conflict is too small to argue about and the conflicts seem endless. These are the parents who would benefit most from parenting coordination.
==When should you hire a parenting coordinator?==
Parenting coordinators do not make fundamental changes to a parenting arrangement. While they can and <span class="noglossary">will</span> adjust an access schedule from time, they can't decide that a child <span class="noglossary">will</span> live with a different parent and they usually won't make long-lasting changes to a schedule of parenting time or contact. Parenting coordinators need a framework to work with, whether the framework is provided by a court order or an agreement.
Parenting coordinators <span class="noglossary">will</span> make <span class="noglossary">minor</span> adjustments to a parenting schedule as may be required from time to time, they . They can help resolve problems about parenting disputes , and they <span class="noglossary">will</span> help the parents to communicate with each other more effectively.
==How do you pick a parenting coordinator?==
The website of the [http://www.bcparentingcoordinators.com BC Parenting Coordinators Roster Society] has a list of their members, sorted alphabetically but with the members identified by the location of their practice and by their profession, whether lawyer, psychologist, registered clinical counsellor, social worker , or mediator, and usually with a link to the member's webpage or website. When you've found one or two parenting coordinators with a good location and a background you like, give them each a call and maybe arrange to meet each of them. You aren't obliged to hire the first person you meet; wait until you've spoken to someone you feel comfortable with and who you think your ex <span class="noglossary">will</span> listen to.
==How do you hire a parenting coordinator?==