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If this doesn't get your ex to agree to see a mediator, tell him or her to ask separated friends, family members and co-workers how much it cost for their court proceedings and how long it took to go from start to finish.
The exception I mentioned above is that if you and your partner have already started an Action in Supreme Court, you may file a Notice to Mediate under the Notice To Mediate (Family) Rule. This rule provides a mechanism for forcing parties to try mediation before they can have a trial. To find out how to use the rule see How to Force a Party to Mediation in the How
To Section.
==Hire a mediator==