* '''Reconciling''': If the complainant really wants to get back together with you, they must talk to crown counsel and ask that the terms of your recognizance be changed to allow you to communicate with each other or to share the same residence. There must be a hearing to vary the terms of the recognizance before those terms will be officially changed.

Criminal charges often make previous parenting arrangements impossible to follow. Where orders or conditions conflict, parents typically follow the most recent document.