===When responses fail===
FranklySometimes, it may there is nothing to be impossible done to fix restore the relationship between an estranged or alienated child and the rejected parent. Counselling and other interventions may not have succeeded; a child's alienation from one negative views of their parents even when alienation has a parent may have been identified by allowed to sit so long that they are entrenched and can't be changed; steps to enforce a psychiatristparenting schedule may have failed in the face of a child's threats to run away or hurt themselves if they're made to see a parent. In At other times, a 1988 article by Nancy Palmerparent may have run out of money and not be able to continue fighting for the steps that might revive the child's relationship with them. The emotional toll of the fighting in court may be too much; or, "Legal Recognition all of the Parental Alienation Syndrome," published battles in court are causing more harm to the child than the ''American Journal loss of Family Therapythe child'', Palmer quotes s relationship with a Florida judge who dealt with an alienation case:parent.
<blockquote>"The Court has no doubt that the cause of the blindIn circumstances like these, brainwashed, bigoted belligerence of the children toward the father grew from a rejected parent may decide to give up the soil nurturedfight, watered and tilled by the mother. The Court or a judge may decide that nothing is thoroughly convinced that ever going to change the mother breached every duty she owed as child's views about the custodial parent to the noncustodial parent of instilling love, respect . While tragic and feeling in the children for their father. Worse, she slowly dripped poison into the minds of these childrenprofoundly upsetting, maybe even beyond the power of this Court sometimes it's best just to find the antidotestop."</blockquote>
GardnerIt's solution was important to remove the child from the care of the alienating parent. This isknow, in most caseshowever, a drastic solution which forces that reconciliation between the child to live full-time with and the parent they have been taught to dislike and distrust. It may can still be appropriate in the right circumstances. This is what the Supreme Court did in the 2009 case of [http://canlii.ca/t/22pjw A.A. v. S.N.A.]occur, 2009 BCSC 303 when it found that the mother had "continued to undermine the relationship between [the child] and her father" and "acted although this may not happen until later in ways that are detrimental to [the child's] psychological healing." The court ordered that life, when the child have no contact with her mother at all for one yearis older and more mature. This kind sort of solution remains the exception rather than the rule. In most cases, however"spontaneous reconciliation, " as the best that can be done to cure the problem is to obtain an order requiring that the childresearch calls it, the alienated parent, or both the child and the parent see a family counsellor skilled in dealing with the psychological effects of separation. The court can specify who the counsellor will be, how frequent the sessions will be, and who will pay for themdoes occur. There is Although no guarantee that counselling will fix the problem since the source of the problem lies in the conduct of the alienating parent, but counselling is a less drastic step and will be easier to obtain than an order changing the children's home. In a small number one can count on this sort of casesthing happening, it may prove impossible to ameliorate an alienated child's views about the targeted parent. These cases there are tragic and a legal solution may not be available. When the alienation becomes deeply entrenched, the issue about which parent bears the blame for the children's views is irrelevant. You can lay blame, but that won't change the fact of how the children feel. In situations like this, the targeted parent may have no choice but to wait until the children become mature and independent enough to seek out the parent and talk about their childhood.few steps