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→Changing decision-making responsibilities and parental responsibilities
*parents cannot stop arguing about decisions affecting their children, so that decisions are made late or never made at all,
*parents are constantly going to mediation, arbitration or court to resolve disagreements about decisions affecting their children, or
*the ongoing conflict between the parents about making decisions is affecting the wellbeing of their children. In circumstances like these, the changes people usually look for are intended to stop parents from arguing about one or more kinds of decision, and usually people wind up asking for orders that they have sole responsibility for making those decisions. While this may be a practical solution to a difficult problem, it's often a difficult pill to swallow for the parent who losing the right to have influence into decisions affecting their children, especially when the approach they would take to making decisions is guided by personal principles, beliefs and convictions. Think, for example, about getting a child vaccinated against COVID-19, home-schooling versus public- or private-schooling, or choosing the religion in which the child will be instructed.