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}}Marriage agreements are contracts signed by couples either before they marry or shortly afterwards. Most marriage agreements are drafted and signed well ahead of the date of marriage, and that kind of timing is usually a very good idea. Marriage agreements are usually intended to deal with the legal issues if the marriage breaks down, but they can also deal with how day-to-day things will be handled during the marriage.
}}Marriage agreements are contracts signed by people either before they marry or shortly afterwards. Most marriage agreements are prepared and signed well before the date of that marriage, and that kind of approach to timing is usually a very good idea. Marriage agreements are normally intended to deal with some of the legal issues that may arise if the marriage breaks down, but they can also deal with how day-to-day things will be handled during the marriage.


This section discusses when and why marriage agreements are usually entered into, the legal requirements of a valid marriage agreement, and the possible subjects of a marriage agreement.
This section discusses when and why marriage agreements are usually entered into, the legal requirements of a valid marriage agreement, and the possible subjects of a marriage agreement.
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==Entering into a marriage agreement==
==Entering into a marriage agreement==


While a couple might enter into a marriage agreement with the intention of addressing things that could happen during the course of their marriage, more typically these agreements are intended to address the issues that will arise if the marriage breaks down. Marriage agreements are binding on the parties as a legal contract. They may be enforced by the courts if someone tries to escape or change an obligation they have agreed to.
While a couple might enter into a marriage agreement with the intention of addressing things that could happen during the course of their marriage, more often these agreements are intended to address the issues that may arise if the marriage breaks down. Marriage agreements are binding on the parties the way any other legal contract is binding on people. They can be enforced by the courts if someone tries to avoid or change an obligation they have agreed to.


Most couples who marry do not have a marriage agreement. It is important to note that there is no legal requirement that you must enter into such an agreement if you're getting married. You cannot be forced into a marriage agreement.
Most couples who marry do not have a marriage agreement. In fact, there is no law that says you must sign a marriage agreement if you're married or planning to marry someone.
 
The person you're planning on marrying can't force you to sign a marriage agreement either. Deciding not to sign a marriage agreement might end your relationship and the chances that you'll actually get married, but that's your choice. You don't have to sign a marriage agreement.  


===When a marriage agreement is a good idea===
===When a marriage agreement is a good idea===
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*one or both of the parties have a substantial amount of property going into the marriage,
*one or both of the parties have a substantial amount of property going into the marriage,
*one of the parties expects to acquire substantial property during the marriage, through, for example, a business, an inheritance, a settlement or court award, or a gift,
*one of the parties expects to acquire substantial property during the marriage, through, for example, a business, an inheritance, a settlement or court award, or a gift,
*the parties want to avoid some of the stress and anger that can come after separation by deciding in <span class="noglossary">advance</span> how certain difficult issues, like the division of family property and family debt, will be dealt with,
*the parties want to avoid some of the stress and anger that can come after separation by deciding in <span class="noglossary">advance</span> how certain difficult issues, like the division of property and debt, will be dealt with,
*one or both of the parties experienced an ugly court battle leaving a previous relationship,
*one or both of the parties experienced an ugly court battle leaving a previous relationship,
*one or both of the parties will be bringing children from a previous relationship into the marriage, or
*one or both of the parties will be bringing children from a previous relationship into the marriage, or
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*neither party has significant property,
*neither party has significant property,
*neither party has significant debts,
*neither party has significant debts,
*both parties are relatively young and intend the marriage to be permanent, and
*both parties are relatively young and expect their marriage to be permanent, and
*neither party is bringing any children into the marriage from another relationship.
*neither party is bringing any children into the marriage from another relationship.


In circumstances like that, there really isn't much point to having a marriage agreement. There aren't any kids to worry about and neither party has any assets to protect going into the marriage. What purpose would a marriage agreement serve?
In circumstances like these, there really isn't much point to having a marriage agreement. There aren't any kids to worry about and neither party has any assets to protect going into the marriage. What purpose would a marriage agreement serve?


As well, the ''[[Family Law Act]]'' also says that an agreement made before the parties have separated cannot deal with:
On top of that, the ''[[Family Law Act]]'' also says that an agreement made before the parties have separated cannot deal with:


#parental responsibilities and parenting time, or
#parental responsibilities and parenting time, or
#child support.
#child support.


Marriage agreements are odd things anyway, as they tend to lend a unpleasant and sometimes petty financial dimension to what ought to be a joyous occasion. If there's no good reason to have a marriage agreement, don't have a marriage agreement.
Marriage agreements are odd things anyway, as they tend to lend an unpleasant and sometimes petty dimension to what ought to be a joyous occasion. If there's no good reason to have a marriage agreement, don't have a marriage agreement.


===Negotiating a marriage agreement===
===Negotiating a marriage agreement===
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===Avoid do-it-yourself marriage agreement kits===
===Avoid do-it-yourself marriage agreement kits===


Staples, Chapters, London Drugs, and other stores generally carry a wide range of DIY legal products, from doing your own will to getting your own divorce.
Bookstores and news stands often carry a wide range of DIY legal products, from doing your own will to getting your own divorce.


In my view most of these do-it-yourself kits are fine for most people most of the time. They are not fine for marriage agreements. Marriage agreements can be terribly complicated, more so than separation agreements, and must be drafted with a good knowledge of family law in general, and marriage agreements in particular. Using a do-it-yourself marriage agreement kit is really not a good strategy.
In my view most of these do-it-yourself kits are fine for most people most of the time. They are not fine for marriage agreements. Marriage agreements can be terribly complicated, more so than separation agreements, and must be drafted with a good knowledge of family law in general, and marriage agreements in particular. Using a do-it-yourself marriage agreement kit is really not a good strategy.
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*A marriage agreement must be in writing.
*A marriage agreement must be in writing.
*The agreement must be signed by each party, and should be signed in the presence of a witness. Although an agreement made without a witness can still be valid and binding, it is a very good idea to have a witness (or witnesses) because she (or they) can confirm that the parties signed the agreement. In addition, sections 94 and 165 of the ''[[Family Law Act]]'' provide that a court cannot make an order about division of property and debt or spousal support that has been dealt with in a written, witnessed agreement between the parties unless the court has set aside the agreement.
*The agreement must be signed by each party and should be signed in the presence of a witness. Although an agreement made without a witness can be valid and binding, it is a very good idea to have a witness so that they can confirm that the parties signed the agreement, in case one of them denies signing it in the future. As well, sections 94 and 165 of the ''Family Law Act'' prevent the court from making orders about property and debt that have been addressed in a written and witnessed agreement unless it sets the agreement aside.
*Neither party should be under a legal disability when they sign the agreement. Note, however, that being a minor is not a legal disability in cases where that person is also a parent or a spouse. In such a case, that person can be under the age of majority, but can still enter into a binding agreement.
*Neither party should be under a legal disability, like being under the age of majority or not being of sound mind, when signing the agreement. However, children who are parents or spouses may enter into a binding agreement.
*The agreement must clearly identify the parties and the nature of their rights and obligations to one another.
*The agreement must clearly identify the parties and the nature of their rights and obligations to one another.


In addition to these simple formalities of a proper family law agreement, you might want to think about certain other principles of contract law such as these:
In addition to these simple formalities of a family law agreement, you might want to think about certain other principles of contract law like these:


*The parties must each enter into the agreement of their own free will, without any coercion or duress by the other party, or by anyone else for that matter.
*The parties must each enter into the agreement of their own free will, without any coercion or duress by the other party, or by anyone else for that matter.
*Both parties must make full and complete disclosure of their circumstances going into the agreement. This disclosure should include complete information about the parties' assets and debts, as well as information about the values of the assets and amounts owing on the debts.
*Both parties must make full and complete disclosure of their circumstances going into the agreement. This disclosure should include complete information about each party's income and each party's assets and debts.
*The parties cannot make an illegal bargain, that is, they can't make an agreement that obliges them to do something against the law.
*Where an agreement is prepared by one party's lawyer and the other party doesn't have a lawyer, any portions of the agreement that are vague may at some point in the future be interpreted by the court in favour of the party who didn't have the lawyer.
*Where an agreement is prepared by one party's lawyer and the other party doesn't have a lawyer, any portions of the agreement that are vague may at some point in the future be interpreted by the court in favour of the party who didn't have the lawyer.
*The court will attempt to give effect to a contract wherever possible, that is, they will attempt to give meaning to the terms of a contract rather than declare it void.
*The court will attempt to interpret and give a specific meaning to ambiguous terms of a contract wherever possible, rather than just setting the agreement aside.
*If a term of a marriage agreement is found to be invalid, only the invalid part of the agreement will stop being in effect. The remainder of the agreement will continue to be valid and binding on the parties.
*If a term of a marriage agreement is found to be invalid, only the invalid part of the agreement will stop being in effect. The remainder of the agreement will continue to be binding on the parties.


Aside from these considerations, it is also important to remember that marriage agreements are usually only meant to be used at some unknown time in the future. While separation agreements are intended to work immediately from the moment they are signed, marriage agreements usually aren't intended to work until some later time, usually upon the spouses' separation. As a result, it can be difficult to guess what each party's situation will be like when the agreement begins to operate and whether it will still be appropriate and fair. Because of these problems, hiring the services of a lawyer to prepare a marriage agreement is highly recommended.
Aside from these considerations, it's also important to remember that marriage agreements that deal with property and debts or issues like spousal support are usually only meant to be used when the relationship comes to an end, at some unknown time in the future. As a result, it can be difficult to guess what each party's situation will be like when the agreement begins to operate and whether it will still be appropriate and fair. Because of these problems, hiring the services of a lawyer to prepare a marriage agreement is highly recommended.


==The possible subjects of a marriage agreement==
==The possible subjects of a marriage agreement==


A marriage agreement can address any number of subjects, and deal with anything that's a concern to one or both spouses. Typical subjects include the following:
A marriage agreement can address any number of subjects, and deal with almost anything that's a concern to one or both spouses. Typical subjects include the following:


*How will the spouses own property during the marriage, separately or jointly?
*How will the parties own or buy property during their marriage, separately or jointly?
*How will the spouses divide their property and debts after the marriage? Will there be any division of property at all?  
*How will the parties divide their property and debts after the marriage? Will there be any division of property at all?  
*Will the spouses share in the value or cost of property bought during the marriage, like a car or a house?
*Will the parties share in the value or cost of property bought during the marriage, like a car or a house?
*Will the parties have a share in any excluded property brought into the marriage by one of the spouses?
*Will the parties have a share in any excluded property brought into the marriage by one of the spouses?
*How will unexpected windfalls like inheritances and lottery wins be dealt with? Will they be shared or kept separate?
*How will unexpected windfalls like inheritances and lottery wins be dealt with? Will they be shared or kept separate?
*How will the spouses deal with their residence and/or jointly owned property if one of the spouses dies during the relationship?
*How will the family home and jointly-owned property be dealt with if one of the spouses dies during the relationship?
*How will household chores be shared during the marriage?
*How will household chores be shared during the marriage?
*How will household expenses be paid for during the marriage? Will both spouses contribute to the bills? Will the bills be divided between them?
*How will household expenses be paid for during the marriage? Will both parties contribute to the bills?
*How will the spouses manage retirement savings during the marriage?
*How will the parties manage any retirement savings during the marriage?
*How will the children brought into the marriage from another relationship be dealt with during the marriage? Will any responsibilities continue after separation?
*How will children brought into the marriage from another relationship be cared for during the marriage? Will any of these responsibilities continue after separation?
*How will children born during the marriage be cared for after separation?


Except for the restrictions on agreements about parental responsibilities, parenting time, and child support, the possible subjects of a marriage agreement are limited only by your imagination, common sense, and the law of contracts. I've seen some fairly unique marriage agreements over the years, including agreements, likely unenforceable, that talk about the frequency of sex and who will take out the garbage.
Except for the restrictions on agreements about parental responsibilities, parenting time, and child support, the possible subjects of a marriage agreement are limited only by your imagination, common sense, and the law of contracts. I've seen some fairly unique marriage agreements over the years, including agreements, likely unenforceable, that talk about the frequency of sex and who will take out the garbage.


However, as a general rule of thumb, it's best to deal with the concrete things that exist at the time of the marriage (such as children from a previous relationship, existing debts, and existing property) and things that the couple can reasonably expect to happen during the marriage in the short term (such as receiving an inheritance or a court award). Dealing with things that ''might'' happen (like new children, a move to a new town, or lottery winnings) is really speculative, and it's almost impossible to know how they should be dealt with if, at some unknown point in the future, the marriage comes to an end.
However, as a general rule, it's best to deal with the concrete things that exist at the time of the marriage (such as children from a previous relationship, existing debts, and existing property) and things that the couple can reasonably expect to happen during the marriage in the short term (such as receiving an inheritance or a court award). Dealing with things that ''might'' happen (like new children, a move to a new town, or lottery winnings) is really speculative, and it's almost impossible to know how they should be dealt with if, at some unknown point in the future, the marriage comes to an end.


==Resources and links==
==Resources and links==
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===Legislation===
===Legislation===


*''[[Family Law Act]]''
 
*''[[Divorce Act]]''
*''[https://canlii.ca/t/8q3k Family Law Act]''
*''[https://canlii.ca/t/551f9 Divorce Act]''


===Links===
===Links===


* [https://clicklaw.bc.ca/resource/4653 Legal Services Society's Family Law website's information page "Legal forms & documents"]
*[https://www.clicklaw.bc.ca/resource/4653 Legal forms and documents] from Legal Aid BC
**Under "Agreements" see "Making an agreement when you live together"
**Under "Agreements" see "Making an agreement when you live together"
* [https://clicklaw.bc.ca/resource/4653 Legal Services Society's Family Law website's information page "Legal forms & documents"]
*[https://www.clicklaw.bc.ca/resource/4653 Legal forms and documents] from Legal Aid BC
**Under "Agreements" see "Who can help you reach an agreement?"
**Under "Agreements" see "Who can help you reach an agreement?"
*[http://www.clicklaw.bc.ca/resource/1058 Legal Services Society's ''Living Together or Living Apart''], chapter 2 on making agreements
 
*[http://www.clicklaw.bc.ca/resource/1259 Dial-A-Law Script "Marriage Agreements and Cohabitation Agreements"]
===Resources===
 
*[https://www.clicklaw.bc.ca/resource/1259 Marriage Agreements and Cohabitation Agreements] from Dial-a-Law by the People's Law School
*[http://www.clicklaw.bc.ca/resource/1058 "Living Together or Living Apart"] from Legal Aid BC
** See chapter 2 on making agreements
*[https://www.clicklaw.bc.ca/resource/2627 Family Law in BC: Quick Reference Tool] from Legal Aid BC
 




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